Friends are very important in our lives. Friendships are easily formed when we are young and do not demand too much out of it. According to studies and research, humans tend to form highest number of friendships at kindergarten and primary level. However, one tends to have less friends as one grows older and wiser. This is because we realize there are good friends and bad ones. The saying that a friend in need is a friend indeed is very apt in this scenario because good friends are those who are reliable and trustworthy. at a younger age, our demands are not too high regarding friendships as we rely mostly on our parents, siblings and relatives for important things. The friends we formed at this age are merely considered playmates rather than companions and confidants. Thus, our expectations of them are not high. More serious friendships are formed when one enters puberty and achieves certain level of maturity. the latter allows one to forge fellowship with those who share the same interests, passion as well as similar moral and religious values. Thus, it is not surprising to observe that in some Asian country, mature students at the upper secondary level have friends of the same ethnic and religious backgrounds. At the university level, it is even more apparent. Even the Ministry of education has voiced concern over this phenomenon where polarization is prominent. The Indians, Chinese and Malays hardly mix with each other and are seen usually in the company of their own kind. One of the main reasons for polarization among university students is that as they reach a certain level of maturity, common binding factors such as religion, customs and traditions play important role in selection of friends or mates. In addition, since majority of these students come from rural backgrounds where there is not much cultural interchange, they feel rather awkward to forge friendships with students of other races. However, this does not mean the students are racist or suffer from superiority complex. Thus, the university should introduce more programs that allow cultural and religious mixing and understanding of the other. Nevertheless, in the working world, a different scenario prevails. One finds Indians, Chinese and other races forging stable and long lasting friendships. This is most probably due o the fact that to be productive in one's work, one has to believe in team work. The latter actually enhances the bond between the workers and eventually long lasting friendships are formed. In fact, this situation has even led to many inter racial marriages between the three major races. the products of the intermarriages are very unique as they have friends and relatives from both ethnic backgrounds.
Some people have used the term “educational conscience”, to describe the purpose of college studies. Every individual that I have spoken to describes a gradual and complete change in viewpoint about the world after completing a higher education. It expands our knowledge of what is happening around us as well as teaches us to analyze our world and society from a critical viewpoint. My aspirations to enroll in your program are based on the desire to expand my horizons, reach out to newer ideas, learn about the world around so that I can formulate an individual opinion and contribute to our society. Knowledge alone by itself cannot have any significant impact on your life or on that of others. Only by applying that knowledge to a particular goal, idea, action or thought and dedicating oneself to achieving something from life, will there be a meaningful and powerful result. One could also theoretically apply knowledge to a variety of different ends, either selfish, constructive, professional or other goals, but my desire is to take the courses that will propel me towards my career studies might be associated with certain value ideologies, but I think everyone needs a code of ethics that they can follow. There is more to acting morally than just signing off on release forms when filling out sheets for a sociology class. I realize I need to do everything I can to uphold a policy of academic honesty and that is precisely what I intend to do while I attend college.